Bukan, Okay?

All things that are made to be sold have a brand. And every brand will always be labelled in a lot of words. High-street, kampung, bundle, indie, designer, et cetera, et cetera.

In the real world where not everything is as colourful as a box of crayons and not every girl will get a knight in shining armour, that brand is us. Yes, we do have our own label. Yes.

We are all labelled in a way. Some of it might be those who are labelled as miss-goody-two-shoes, the bimbo, the plastic, wallflower, jock, the joker. Be it anything, but all of us are labelled. Today, I experienced something that made me realised what am I labelled as.

I am the one who are always attached.

I don’t blame gravity for falling in love. And I definitely don’t blame my fickleness for this label. This is a label that I have to accept because what people think is subjective and it is out of our own control. It’s not a problem to be attached. But it will be to those who think that being attached to the opposite sex is something that is undefined. Or to their eyes, it’s like toothache.

We can’t expect things to always go our way. So does what other people say. Let them be.

But you know what? Look at it this way. When the male carry around the girlfriend like some kind of bowling trophy, it’s a full touchdown. They are THE man. But when the female carry around the boyfriend with pride, it’s like an un-oxygenated world. They are tied with a dead knot.

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I’m not a little princess anymore. I know how to take care of myself and also how to take care of things around me as good as I could. And you should quit judging people.


SONG OF THE MOMENT : I Hate This Part by Pussycat Dolls